Why Trails are Lifes greatest lessons!

 Hello, everyone who's reading this blog I hope everybody had a wonderful weekend hoping that you all had a wonderful time spent with friends, families, and loved ones. So for today this blog I want to share with you a certain topic I encountered when I was learning about stress and crises in my family relations class. And so for today I want to share with you this certain topic that I developed and this topic is why trials are life’s greatest lessons by that, I want to share with you a little story about my trials and what they taught me that helped me become better and more successful.

So I'm going to share with you when the trials I had that were one of my greatest lessons this trial began when I was in middle school. In middle school, I believe that grades were important because had all they needed such as a good home a great family, and the most amazing parents in the entire universe. But my failure in my classes made my parents concerned for my well-being so they started to do a little project for me. This project was set on rewards if I get an A in classes they will pay me about 10 to 20 bucks depending on how good I do in school so I agreed to these terms and I went on to study for my classes I started for about two to three hours a day and do all my homework day and night. But once weeks go by the more homework I did I actually enjoyed doing it sometimes not because I was getting paid it was because of something else and I didn't know what it was until one day when I got into high school my dad stopped the project. So when my mom and my dad sat down in the living room he taught me a valuable lesson that day thou would never forget he looked straight at me and said this he said, “son this project was not about the allowance this was about the reward on fulfilling your successes and it is also about that feeling that makes you want to do it more than feeling son is called accomplishments and that is the true key to help you in your daily life.” And on that moment on I understood exactly what my dad was talking about he wasn't paying me because it was a reward he was rewarding me for the accomplices and the successions and the everlasting effort in it that led me towards my success it helped me open my eyes to a possibility and to a new level of expectations and that's when my trial ended there. So that was the lifelong lesson that awaited me was the fact that if I kept failing my classes then I would never receive the important knowledge of expectations and accomplices and I would end up in a position that I would never give myself out of all because of my lack of desires. But also I learned that these trials are going to keep coming and trials are going to repeat in life again and again and again but thanks to the perfect lesson that my dad taught me I knew exactly how I was going to prevent that to never let my failures and my downfalls overcome me that instead for letting that happen I instead learn from my mistakes and I know exactly what I need to do in order to help myself become better. So that's why trials are one of life's greatest lessons in order to help ourselves become more successful and more accomplished in life we have to Start learning and opening our eyes to a higher level of expectations and so once we do that we will not only become more successful we will become better and to lead ourselves in a perfect life.

So for today, I’m doing something a little bit more I am going to share with you a scripture and a movie quote. First, the scripture for today is 1 Peter 1:7 and which reads, “That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ.” And the movie quote is Master Yoda from Star Wars and he shares, “The greatest teacher, failure is.”

 By: Carson Abraham 
Published on: March 3, 2023


 

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