Communication help to gain and prevent to risk in a relationship.

 Hello everyone, I hope you all have had a wonderful weekend and spent some time with your family, friends, and loved ones. Today by finishing this blog for today I will be discussing with you the gains and the risks of forming a relationship and the effects of cheating and divorce. So, I’m going to share with you what we should do as couples to gain more and prevent the risk of anything and why cheating is one of the things we should avoid using, and why divorces/breaking up sometimes happen with reasoning.

So, when two individuals come together and form a strong bond that bond creates relationships and when those certain individuals go to that certain point there are topics that some people that should be addressed such as what steps can we take to be better or what should we do when we get into an argument? The reason why these types of topics need to be taken seriously is that there will be a point in these individual’s relationship when conflicts will appear at any moment at any time and these things need to be discussed so that these couples will know what to do when these types of conflicts will show themselves unto these individuals. For example, my girlfriend and I talked about reasons why we should break up and my answer was that I don’t want to break up with my girlfriend because she has given me no reason to break up with her, another good topic we have discussed is that if there will become a time that there will be a conflict in our relationship instead of intensifying these conflicts we’ve decided to open about this with each other is because having good communication and a good sense of empathy we can fight any conflict that comes our way just like my religion professor once said,” it’s better to be loved then it is to be right.”

However, the reality of this, and this goes for all relationships, is that there will come a time when some relationships can be fragile due to these conflicts and there will come a time when partners will cheat or break up with them on the spot. Here’s the thing that I’ve learned about having an intimate relationship don’t ever cheat because it is wrong and toxic and it’ll destroy you and your ex-partner if you want to work or ends things with the relationship you need to communicate with them because it’s better to give the message than a toxic bomb because that’ll lead them to pain that can be so intense that even can cause them to commit suicide to my readers who have intimate relationships if your relationship needs to be worked or ended communication is the only key to do so.

I finish this blog by saying relationships aren’t perfect sometimes we say this to sugar coat it but in reality, there will be a point when conflict will get the best of you so when you get to that point and you and your partner/spouse need to work things out please sit down with them and have opened mind and heart because it’ll help the situations because it’s better to be free from pain than to be imprisoned from it and I promise you that life will be easier for you and you’ll gain a lot of things from learning from one another and used those methods to prevent any risks that will occur.  

The scripture I want to finish this blog with is Deuteronomy 30:16 which reads, “In that I command thee this day to love the Lord thy God, to walk in his way, and to keep his commandments and his statutes and his judgments, that thou mayest live and multiply; and the Lord thy God shall bless thee in the land whither thou goest to possess it.”

 By: Carson Abraham 
Published on: March 30, 2023


 

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