BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND NOT SHOULD BE

                                                                        Hello everyone, I hope you have a wonderful week and have a special time with your families and loved ones and have such fun activities. Today in my Family Relations class on campus we talked about and answered this simple question “Does gender matter?” Now for today, I am going to give you my answer and also share with you a sort of symbolism I beloved when I learned this interesting for this week of why to me gender really matters.

For me, gender does matter because we need to identify who we are when we socialize, however, it doesn’t need to tell whom we need to become in life and what I want to share with you all just like my dad told me, “You can be whomever you want as long you put both your heart, mind, and soul into it and son your going to do just fine.” All my viewers who are out there who are reading this I’m going to share this real quick don’t ever give up on your dreams because of who you are if you want to do it just put all of your mind, heart, and spirit into as long you get good things from it. I am planning to do business with a certificate in welding and when I told my dad he said, “I love welding and I always wanted to do it.” When I heard that from my dad I told him, “Alrighty then I’ll do it I become a welder for you dad.” My dad replied back, “You don’t have to do that son because of me!” And I answered him, “But I want to because you have shown me you I need to be and I want to repay you as thanks to teach me whom I want to be not should be.” So everyone who reads this always remembers this once you have a dream hold on to it and tell yourself this follow your heart and BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE NOT SHOULD BE don’t let others tell you who you are by gender be who you want to be through living your life.

Now for the symbolism lesson what I thought about this wonderful lesson I have to listen in class I develop I form of thought about the difference between identifying and reviewing. Think of gender as an airport passport that passport represents your identification of everything about you and that’s what we need to look at who we are and what we can learn from each other when we become more open and socialized and what we can grow together. What you need to be careful of is don’t treat each other like a resume because even though we get more information we can’t be too quick to get the motto and move on to the next person because that sends a negative message saying I don’t want to be with you is because your this and this and this. Guys, you might miss a big opportunity for example when I met my girlfriend and she’s from Peru and she asked me one day on our date, “Does our difference bother you at all?” and my immediate answer was a big fat NO because I loved her with her identification of who she is and not her resume because we create that resume by developing relationships together. So all you readers when you go on dates or have a big dream of whom you want to be always remember this BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE AND NOT WHAT YOU SHOULD BE and always be happy with who you are.

The scripture I want to share with you all for today for this blog is Genesis 11:6 and which reads, “And the Lord said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do.”   
                                                                        

 Carson Abraham polished on February 3, 2023